tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post112495850224063869..comments2023-04-17T08:09:53.263-07:00Comments on Truth Is Ordinary People Can't Wait: Compromise and CommitmentUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-1125459035983586392005-08-30T20:30:00.000-07:002005-08-30T20:30:00.000-07:0022??!!! Wow!!! You are SO young! You've got time t...22??!!! Wow!!! You are SO young! You've got time to go for that degree and still do WHATEVER you want to!!! I didn't go back to college til I was almost 24 yrs old. Finally finished at age 28 and it was a proud, proud moment because I had done it ALL BY MYSELF with help from no one! Mommy didn't pay for it, and neither did Daddy. It was all me. Now, I'm 35 and I just finished my Masters Degree. It's always worth it to invest in YOURSELF and your own interests. <BR/><BR/>As for marriage. Interesting stuff there. I would agree that I am also fearful of the COMPROMISE more than the commitment. I never thought of it that way in a conscious way, and so I enjoyed reading this and kinda figuring that out for myself. <BR/><BR/>Part of me would like to be married and do the whole family thing. The other part of me is more like Kathrine Hepburn and wants her freedom forever. The good part? We can choose whatever we want, and even then, we can still change our minds. <BR/><BR/>Peace! :)Modiglianihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13542754383806481453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-1125345039891191992005-08-29T12:50:00.000-07:002005-08-29T12:50:00.000-07:00I don't think you're to young, you have a good hea...I don't think you're to young, you have a good head on your shoulders(as the old saying go's). <BR/><BR/>If you feel this way and are really happy with it then go with it girl and enjoy it!!<BR/><BR/>When my husband died after a period of time everyone I saw wanted to know why I hadn't found someone and remarried. They just don't get it. I am finally happy being just me. If I had it to do over again I would have done everything I wanted to do before I married. <BR/><BR/>If I had if to do over again, (and knew then what I know now). I just might have never married. lol (funny but true.<BR/>There is a lot I would love to say to you, but it would take to long. So I'll just say this,marrage isn't for everyone. I picked up on that "not lonely" so go with it and enjoy the heck out of it.EXSENOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439855607574342872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-1125026974527837292005-08-25T20:29:00.000-07:002005-08-25T20:29:00.000-07:00Pfft! You call that long?Pfft! You call that long?ahlekshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07882856340892242461noreply@blogger.com