tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post4291913472730191461..comments2023-04-17T08:09:53.263-07:00Comments on Truth Is Ordinary People Can't Wait: And there shall be a great cry unlike one that's ever been heard before...Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-51871484061653312962010-04-23T23:37:38.665-07:002010-04-23T23:37:38.665-07:00"There is just that something about men that ..."There is just that something about men that once you marry them they think they are the boss at least on some things. I like being my own boss. I like being independent."<br /><br />If only there was some way to figure out why your marriage didn't work.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-9327879003217720712010-04-23T23:35:23.766-07:002010-04-23T23:35:23.766-07:00While your intentions are noble only a man can rai...While your intentions are noble only a man can raise another man. You could be the single mom of the century and still not scratch the surface.<br /><br />He will live by and go by a totally different set of rules and societal "norms" that women have no clue about. Furthermore he will be held accountable for them by other men. <br /><br />A "substitute" of uncles and friends will not cut it.<br /><br />Fathers will do things for their son's no other man will do.<br /><br />There is more to being a man than "getting dirty and playing sports." The fact that you typed that shows how little you know. And I do mean that constructively.<br /><br />If you look at the statistics the largest number of criminals and thug types are raised by single moms.<br /><br />Good luck to you however you decide to have children if that comes up for you in the future.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-59149614605456844872010-01-30T12:32:04.641-08:002010-01-30T12:32:04.641-08:00Hi Miss Krys,
Believe me when I say there are just...Hi Miss Krys,<br />Believe me when I say there are just as many sorry, cheating white men as there are black men. When it comes to men sometimes I think they all cheat at one point or another. <br /><br />I like your post.<br />You seem to have this well thought out. I say do what feels good to you.<br />My daughter and I have raised her son with no man involved and he is now 18yrs. and a very masculine young man. Being raised by two women didn't seem to effect him at all. <br /><br />So you go girl, do your thing. <br />There have been many times that I think if I had it to do all over again and knew what I know now,I would never have gotten married. There is just that something about men that once you marry them they think they are the boss at least on some things. I like being my own boss. I like being independent.EXSENOhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13439855607574342872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-77092589311557220122010-01-28T14:22:46.786-08:002010-01-28T14:22:46.786-08:00Judy,
I appreciate your comment, but the women ab...Judy, <br />I appreciate your comment, but the women about which I speak are the ones who are not in the poverty level, and actually in a quite opposition situation. Many black women would love nothing more than to find a husband (or have a man find us and make us a wife). The problem is that the numbers are there. This blog post was targeting specifically black women who are in their mid to late 30s who are successful both financially and emotionally who would otherwise not have an opportunity to be a mother because unfortunately the numbers in our community are sorely lacking. <br /><br />This reality too breaks my heart. Thank you for your thought-filled comment.Miss Kryshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09916592540988136264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10757023.post-669336165802931492010-01-28T14:14:02.578-08:002010-01-28T14:14:02.578-08:00It breaks my heart to hear young black women draw ...It breaks my heart to hear young black women draw the conclusions that you have about having children out of wedlock. Another statistic that you need to take into consideration is the appalling number of single women in America bringing children into the world and living in abject poverty. Children are expensive and raising children alone on a single income and an often deficient income only brings despair, breeds crime, poverty and strain on our society and the government coffers. Not to mention the statistics that have proven that children from a dual parented home are so much more well balanced mentally and emotionally. <br /><br />My advice to you is find yourself a good husband and raise a well balanced family. <br /><br />God bless you in your search for the meanings of life, happiness and fulfillment.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16110475881631071564noreply@blogger.com